I am a big fan of all the stories, all the time. Personal or
folktale, they’re all true for somebody.
Every generation
believes that they invent things like life, sex, spirituality, farting, and
relationships. Part of the survival of our species, I think, is to say,
"Well, our (fill in the blank) is better than what they used to do. We're
changing (fill in the blank) for the better."
There is a fascinating print interview over at “Arts in a Changing America” blog that talks about the development of the Story
Slam (all personal tales) model over the last few years. Shannon Turner interviews Randy Osborne, the founder of the Carapace storytelling event. It’s
a good article and, while I have something to add, I think it is a good read
for anyone who does any type of oral storytelling. Go on, read it. Then come
back. I’m waiting……
My thoughts are below. Buckle up, this is a long one.
Back to “every generation invents…” So it is in
storytelling. I enjoy personal storytelling events such as Carapace and The
Moth. However, the power in storytelling to generate community, to promote
change or development, to talk about the tough subjects (how about a knocked-up
Rapunzel?) is not new and has always been in the realm of storytelling. Yes,
the film studios have cleaned it all up to sell movies and toys, but those of
us deep in the roots of oral storytelling know better. My (respectful and kind) advice to Randy is to
get out more to some world-tale storytelling in the real world. There are plenty of us
taking the old tales out for visceral-and-cringey spins and never setting foot
in a children's library or elementary school as we present unvarnished tales to
adults. The schools would get mad at me when, in my fairytales unvarnished, the children cut off their fingers or are forced to have sex with their fathers.
So, a student had a transcendent moment in anatomy class?
Good! Learning from the dead is not new,
no matter how much a modern audience wants to believe it. Dig into an Irish
folktale such as "Tieg O'Kane and Corpse" (treat a woman like trash, boy, and you'll have hell to pay) to see that folks have been learning (metaphorically)
from the dead for hundreds of years, too. There are plenty of others out
there. There is nothing new and
everything new about this discovery that the dead can "speak.” See the homework below if you want another story of the dead speaking.
The role of world-tale storytelling is to put context to the
present, grounding it on the path of the past and sending it toddling into the
future. Your human experiences have already been experienced in some form (take
comfort) and you will add your experience to the mix (take challenge). Your
experience then is fodder for your children or maybe even the guy sitting next
to your at the Story Slam, slamming too many Captain Morgans. “Resistance
is futile.” (Yeah, baby, an old pop reference right there.)
Here's the real challenge- a storyteller who is willing to
do the work can interweave a traditional story into a personal tale and put
both modern experience and generational wisdom together. Like the older woman
in the post, I often leave a modern personal storytelling event with, frankly,
nothing other than the shell of the experience. We get to be familiar with
people we will never know. Yeah, I laughed or maybe felt misty while a personal story
was told but then I have nothing. For example, why is it important to know a
single storyteller's mother was a terror? Outside of empathy for the teller, their
story alone does little for the listener, but if it is put it in context of how
the world has viewed horrible parents then the audience has something to hang
on to and chew on. Or, put it in the context of your horrible mother and a
world-tale where the mother is more nurturing and now the audience can have
some confidence that their singular situation may not hold true for
everyone...and in that there is hope. And, full of expectation, that the dialogue
in the audience member's head becomes real conversation with trusted friends
(or therapist) who can help.
Gossip is temporary. Storytelling is catalyst.
Comfort in things unchanging is only for the old? There is a
Sacred Success Trilogy in these personal telling events like this. For best
success, be sure to mention Sex, Drinking or Bad Relationships...just like the
young people of every culture before you. Just because the Grimm Brothers
couldn’t, in their culture, say that Rapunzel wanted some “booty calls” does not mean they didn’t use the
cultural language for “booty call” in their stories. None of this is new as you
find all these things in fairytales and folktales across cultures. None of our
generations invented any of these things. I find great comfort in that we
generations keep reinventing the same wheel. We are part of a whole that, paradoxically,
does not change even when we’re changing it. Cool.
As a side note, when The Moth was first emerging from the
cocoon, they did make contact with us at Storyteller.net. (Yeah, we're old.) I am sorry to say
that at that time the “traditional storytelling” community wasn’t ready to hear
what they had to say and the slam community wasn’t ready to hear what was being
said to them. We all missed the boat (or at least paddling together) on this
whole “new” concept. I find myself now delighted in the success of The Moth and
slams like it. These events, fun on their own, are a good way to introduce
people to the greater concepts of what story and storytelling can do…just as people
have known for centuries before us.
Oh, and those stories about farting? Dig into the Arabian
Nights. It's not about magic carpet rides alone.
P.S. Here's your homework: listen to Hawaiin storyteller Jeff Gere do his adult storytelling thing and take you to school. The dead speak (another story) in track #2. Find it at http://storyteller.net/amphitheater/38 There's no pretense or formality in his work, only skill and a deep love for the truth of world-tales.
(7/12/2012 update: The author of the original piece (Shannon): "I do want to point out, though, that Carapace is very intentionally not a story slam. Randy speaks to that in the interview, and why Atlanta has chosen not to do our event in story slam-style." So, way cool that Shannon answered and I am happy to add this clarification.)
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About the Author: Sean Buvala is a professional storyteller and author (and
slam judge) who rarely tells cute stories with morals to children. He’s much
better in business situations helping people connect their stories to the
business or nonprofit organization at hand. He’s also
the creator of StoryRise that brings solid “traditional” storytelling to adult
audiences, clearing up the myth that fairytales are all about helpless
princesses. His Storytelling 101 manual is a great place to learn the “how” of
storytelling if you are done being overloaded with storytelling theory.
Hunky continues to “tell the story” of a Thanksgiving when he was a boy. He talked about how the family had an unexpected guest for dinner. He then mentioned that his mother was not prepared for guests, but it was the family “policy” to welcome anyone at their table.
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